* Updated default wrapper.config to deal with the hard restart option
* Include the history.txt in the /help.jsp page
* HTML updates (wrapper.log, and no more unix scripts)
* Updated VERSION constants to 0.4
* use that to render the last few lines of the wrapper log on /logs.jsp (for the on demand stack trace)
* thread creation / finalization logging
* support a hard restart (stop immediately and restart the JVM) - useful for rerunning clients.config (etc)
* systray when not supported
* hook in to the service manager and let it know we're exiting gracefully (when appropriate)
* commented out but generally functional systray integration. i cant get it to build sometimes though, something is b0rking up
* new safer way of shutting down the router per discussions with oOo (dealing with a graceful
shutdown where the user updates their config before the shutdown is complete, etc)
* graceful shutdown implemented in the router - shutdownGracefully(), cancelGracefulShutdown(), shutdownInProgress()
